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F.A.T.H.E.R.S.
"F" aithful.
"A" lways there.
"T" rustworthy.
"H" onoring.
"E" ver-loving.
"R" ighteous.
"S" upportive.
Author Unknown

You Never
You never said I’m leaving
You never said goodbye
You were gone before I knew it,
And only God knew why
A million times I needed you,
A million times I cried
If Love alone could have saved you,
You never would have died
In Life I loved you dearly
In death I love you still
In my heart you hold a place,
That no one could ever fill
It broke my heart to lose you,
But you didn’t go alone
For part of me went with you,
The day God took you home.
Author Unknown

What Makes a Dad
God took the strength of a mountain,
The majesty of a tree,
The warmth of a summer sun,
The calm of a quiet sea,
The generous soul of nature,
The comforting arm of night,
The wisdom of the ages,
The power of the eagle’s flight,
The joy of a morning in spring,
The faith of a mustard seed,
The patience of eternity,
The depth of a family need,
Then God combined these qualities,
When there was nothing more to add,
He knew His masterpiece was complete,
And so, He called it … Dad
Author Unknown

My Dad and I
My dad and I-we think alike,
He knows just what I mean
Before I even say a word
He reads, well, in between.
My dad and I-we like to fish
Or build a model plane,
Or fix a broken chair or two
Or just a windowpane.
My dad and I-we know the score
Of every single game;
Sometimes he’s really busy, too
But he takes me just the same.
My dad and I-we go swimming too,
Each year and sometimes twice.
My dad and I-we do everything;
My dad-he’s really nice.
Phyllis C. Michael

Father’s Day
Over the years
As we grow old,
We remember our father
So brave and bold.
In the garden,
Leaning on the plow,
He would listen to me;
I see him now.
He would give advice
And understand;
He was always there
To lend a hand.
God made fathers
Strong and firm,
For he knew our lives
Would have great concerns.
So he gave us fathers
To teach us to pray,
And guide our lives,
And show us the way.
So on his day
Let’s take the time
To say "Thanks, dad.
I’m glad you’re mine."
Mary Frances Bogle

A Little Girl Needs Daddy
A little girl needs Daddy
For many, many things:
Like holding her high off the ground
Where the sunlight sings!
Like being the deep music
That tells her all is right
When she awakens frantic with
The terrors of the night.
Like being the great mountain
That rises in her heart
And shows her how she might get home
When all else falls apart.
Like giving her the love
That is her sea and air,
So diving deep or soaring high
She’ll always find him there.
Author Unknown

Daddy, I Love You
Daddy, I love you
For all that you do.
I’ll kiss you and hug you
‘Cause you love me, too.
You feed me and need me
To teach you to play,
So smile ’cause I love you
On this Father’s Day.
Author Unknown

Fathers Can Be Solitary Mountains
Fathers can be solitary mountains,
All their love rock-like, steep, and strong.
Though warm and caring, somehow they belong
Halfway home to mothers’ bubbling fountains.
Each of us needs love that knows no quarter,
Reminding us of bonds that cross a border,
Strengthening our sense of right and wrong.
Author Unknown

Fathers Need Not Fathers Be
Fathers need not fathers be.
All one needs to do is choose
To love for life, and that embrace,
Held long and hard, bestows the grace
Each craves. For all in time must lose,
Restored alone by memory.
So now it is with you and me.
Author Unknown

Grandfathers Are Fathers Who Are Grand
Grandfathers are fathers who are grand,
Restoring the sense that our most precious things
Are those that do not change much over time.
No love of childhood is more sublime,
Demanding little, giving on demand,
Far more inclined than most to grant the wings
Allowing us to reach enchanted lands.
Though grandfathers must serve as second fathers,
Helping out with young and restless hearts,
Each has all the patience wisdom brings,
Remembering our passions more than others,
Soothing us with old and well-honed arts.
Author Unknown

To My Dad on His Day
To my dad on his day,
Of whom I am a living will:
May your happiness fulfill
Your goodness, as is just and right.
Deeds are seeds upon the night
As wind and wonder have their way,
Delivering the destined light.
Author Unknown

My Dad’s Hands
Bedtime came, we were settling down,
I was holding one of my lads.
As I grasped him so tight, I saw a strange sight:
My hands. . .they looked like my dad’s!
I remember them well, those old gnarled hooks,
there was always a cracked nail or two.
And thanks to a hammer that strayed from its mark,
his thumb was a beautiful blue!
They were rough, I remember, incredibly tough,
as strong as a carpenter’s vice.
But holding a scared little boy at night,
they seemed to me awfully nice!
The sight of those hands – how impressive it was
in the eyes of his little boy.
Other dads’ hands were cleaner, it seemed
(the effects of their office employ).
I gave little thought in my formative years
of the reason for Dad’s raspy mitts:
The love in the toil, the dirt and the oil,
rusty plumbing that gave those hands fits!
Thinking back, misty-eyed, and thinking ahead,
when one day my time is done.
The torch of love in my own wrinkled hands
will pass on to the hands of my son.
I don’t mind the bruises, the scars here and there
or the hammer that just seemed to slip.
I want most of all when my son takes my hand,
to feel that love lies in the grip.
David Kettler

My Dad
When I was just a tiny kid,
Do you remember when,
The time you kissed my bruises,
Or cleaned by soiled chin?
You scrambled for the balls I hit,
(Short-winded more than not,)
Yet, every time we’d play a game,
You praised the "outs" I caught.
It seems like only yesterday,
You wiped away my tears,
And late at night I called your name,
To chase away my fears.
Though time has changed your handsome grip,
Your hair is snowy white,
You gait’s a little slower now,
Thick glasses help your sight.
Oh, do I thirst for years gone by,
To be that growing lad,
Re-living all of the memories,
Of growing with my dad.
Author Unknown

Fathers are Wonderful People
Fathers are wonderful people
Too little understood,
And we do not sing their praises
As often as we should…
For, somehow, Father seems to be
The man who pays the bills,
While Mother binds up little hurts
And nurses all our ills…
And Father struggles daily
To live up to "HIS IMAGE"
As protector and provider
And "hero or the scrimmage"…
And perhaps that is the reason
We sometimes get the notion,
That Fathers are not subject
To the thing we call emotion,
But if you look inside Dad’s heart,
Where no one else can see
You’ll find he’s sentimental
And as "soft" as he can be…
But he’s so busy every day
In the grueling race of life,
He leaves the sentimental stuff
To his partner and his wife…
But Fathers are just WONDERFUL
In a million different ways,
And they merit loving compliments
And accolade of praise,
For the only reason Dad aspires
To fortune and success
Is to make the family proud of him
And to bring them happiness…
And like OUR HEAVENLY FATHER,
He’s a guardian and a guide,
Someone that we can count on
To be ALWAYS ON OUR SIDE.
Helen Steiner Rice

Be Kind To Thy Father
Be kind to thy father,
for when thou wert young,
Who loved thee so fondly as he?
He caught the first accents that
fell from thy tongue,
And joined in thy innocent glee.
Author Unknown

Butterfly Kisses
There’s two things I know for sure.
She was sent here from heaven,
and she’s daddy’s little girl.
As I drop to my knees by her bed at night,
she talks to Jesus, and I close my eyes.
And I thank God for all of the joy in
my life, But most of all, for…
Butterfly kisses after bedtime prayer.
Stickin’ little white flowers all up in her hair.
"Walk beside the pony daddy,
it’s my first ride."
"I know the cake looks funny,
daddy, but I sure tried."
Oh, with all that I’ve done wrong,
I must have done something right
To deserve a hug every morning,
And butterfly kisses at night.
Sweet sixteen today,
She’s looking like her momma
a little more everyday.
One part woman, the other part girl.
To perfume and makeup,
form ribbons and curls.
Trying her wings out
in a great big world. But I remember…
Butterfly kisses after bedtime prayer.
Stickin’ little white flowers all up in her hair.
"You know how much I love you daddy,
But if you don’t mind,
I’m only going to kiss you on
the cheek this time."
With all that I’ve done wrong
I must have done something right.
To deserve her love every morning,
And butterfly kisses at night.
All the precious time
Like the wind, the years go by
Precious butterfly
Spread your wings and fly
She’ll change her name today.
She’ll make a promise,
and I’ll give her away.
Standing in the bride room
just staring at her,
she asked me what I’m thinking,
and I said "I’m not sure,
I just feel like I’m losing my baby girl."
Then she leaned over….and gave me….
Butterfly kisses, with her mama there
Sticking little flowers all up in her hair
"Walk me down the aisle, daddy,
it’s just about time."
"Does my wedding gown look pretty, daddy?"
"Daddy, don’t cry."
With all that I’ve done wrong,
I must have done something right
To deserve her love every morning,
And butterfly kisses
I couldn’t ask God for more, man, this is what love is
I know I’ve gotta let her go, but I’ll always remember
Every hug in the morning, and butterfly kisses…
Bob Carlisle & Randy Thomas

Daddy’s Girl
When you were young, pony-tailed,
face full of playful freckles,
were you a daddy’s girl?
I was. I still am.
Did you look to him for your security,
for love and attention,
for the understanding, and the patience you lacked
as a child?
My daddy was the center of my small world,
the focus of my affections,
the star that lit my life, shining bright.
Shining still in my heart.
The years have led me here,
weathered with maturity and responsibilities,
and I see more clearly now.
The hardships, burdens of love,
and all the small sacrifices he made for me,
for our family.
He created stability, a place to call home.
All the photographs I browse through
of a child long forgotten, scarcely remembered
smiling, so happy and so loved.
The mere thought of becoming that role model
is enough to send me cowering, afraid…
looking for guidance.
Turning to my father and my more for support,
advice, wise counsel, and for approval.
Grown up, I see differently now…
A new perspective of a man I have always known.
My heart is full, my emotions overpowering
just in the certainty of that bond.
He’s been there for me through all the conflicts
helping me over the rough, ragged stones of growing up.
My respect for him is unending,
faith is unbound, and love is unquestioning.
Even in the midst of all my imperfections, he is lenient,
ignoring the pitfalls, the downfalls, the shortcomings,
he just accepted me as I was, as I am.
The sheer purity of it leaves me awe-struck
and it lifts me up, it holds my head a little higher,
it keeps me in balance,
harmonizing with the world around me
beautifully, like an inspired masterpiece from the soul
of an honest man.
I am honored to know him, to love him, to be of him.
He’s my hero, and I am his daughter, his little girl.

Parent’s Murphy’s Law
1. Parenting is a 24-hour-a-day job with no salary, no raises, no promotions and very few
vacations.
2. Parents are responsible for everything that happens to their children.
3. Guilt and self-blame are occupational hazards.
4. Parents don’t get worker’s compensation or any other fringe benefits.
5. Parents can never retire — even when their kids ask them to.
6. Parents "don’t get no respect" –until they die–and then it’s too late.
Bruce Lanksy

A Father Is:
There in every memory
See his love and care
Strength and hands to count on
Freely he does share
Provider, toil so faithfully
To make our dreams come true
Give strong and tender discipline
Though it is hard to do
A Father is God’s chosen one
To lead the family
And point it to His will for life
Of love and harmony…
Sue Skeen

Happy Fathers Day
Happy Fathers Day
Happy Fathers day means more
than have a happy day
It means i love you first of all
Then thanks for all you do
It means you mean a lot to me
and that I honor you.
Jennifer

Daddy you are the Best
Daddy you are the best,
although you live in the west.
stay the way you are,
while your driving your sports car.
You couldn’t be a better dad
oh yeah, don’t go driving around mad
I love you for ever
’cause you’r really clever
Even though i puss and shove
I will still show all my love
Olivia Elliott & Simeran Mason

God made a father who is,
as sweet as a nectar,
as brave as a lion,
as cheerful as a bear,
and he gave such dear father to me.
Tanusrii Gopal Krishnan

Fathers young, fathers old
Remembering good times are our gold.
Value earned through guidance given
Helping us go forth in living’.
Each father adding to our trove
A treasure chest of love untold.
Remembering father in our lives
Taking time to realize.
Fatherly love brings wealth to living
Remembering this we go forth in giving.
Fathers young, fathers old
We remember you all
As life unfolds.
Ragini

Always there for me
I know you will always hear my rumbling and bear my blaring
I know you will always stand by me even if the world is against
I know you will always adore me and elevate me
I know you will think about me every moment
I know you will be infelicitous without your princess
I know you will always be there for me
You know I love you
Aarthi

My Daddy
My Daddy is a mountain
My Daddy is a sea
My Daddy smiles again and again
I love my Daddy
And I know he loves me
’cause my Daddy is a ray of lite
that warms a winters’ eve
My daddy is very special to me
I could not live without my daddy
as he could not live without me.
Charleigh Graham

THE GENESIS OF FATHERS
Over 6,00 years ago,
God seated majestically on His throne,
Became thoughtful,
T’ was a feeling of inadequacy,
‘I must have an heir to who can enjoy his own domain,
(Of course with my privileges at his disposal,
His continuous praise will be my delight)’,
God thought of man becoming the
Focus of their attention from heaven,
Like the first child of a young couple,
‘What’s my glory without man’, he wondered,
Then a casual walk he took,
Throughout the universe he had created,
Then at planet earth he made up his mind,
To transform the shapeless and void dark earth,
Into a place of life and light,
Then at last God spoke,
‘Let there be light’,
His man will be a product of light,
God paused, and named at work done,
The first day.
First days followed
God’s preparation for man continued,
Each day speaking the WORD to create,
The earth, He made,
The sun for day, season and yearly count,
The seas, rivers, sky and earth he filled,
With creatures, fishes birds and beasts,
Every creation capable of reproducing itself,
All for the comfort of man and to dominate,
Then came the 6th and most glamorous day,
The reason for all the works and expedition,
The day for God to reproduce Himself onto the earth,
And God spokes, this time to His son and spirit as well,
‘Let us make man in our image,
To commune with us daily’,
For this venture in particular,
They employed the use of their hands
Thus on the 6th day man came into being,
The 1st father entered the world to rule,
He named everything that was made,
‘Noun’ thus becoming synonymous to man,
Indeed all was very good
And on the seventh He rested.
O the depth of the riches both the wisdom and knowledge of
How unsearchable are His judgments and His
Manifestations beyond discovery
We give all the glory to our Almighty Father in Heaven,
He has made man heroes and we are proud to be His.
FOR crowned man with glory and honor,
As we celebrate all fathers today,
We dedicate today,
To the father of all fathers, Jehovah is His name.
Today thus also becomes ‘Happy our Heavenly father’s day!!!
CONGRATUTLATIONS, ALL FATHERS CONGRATULATIONS, FATHERS SON AND HOLY GHOST
Evans D- Caesar

Memorial Day Is Celebrated on the last Monday of May. Memorial Day was originally called “Decoration Day”.

Memorial Day is a day of remembrance for those who have died in service to our nation.

There are well over two dozen cities and towns in the United States that lay claim to being the birthplace of Memorial Day and there is also evidence that points to organized women’s groups in the South which were decorating graves before the end of the Civil War.  Regardless of claims and beliefs, in May 1966, President Lyndon B Johnson officially declared Waterloo New York to be the birthplace of Memorial Day.  It is however difficult to conclusively prove the origins of Memorial Day

More likely, Memorial Day sprouted it’s roots in many towns, cities and communities as these organizations planned memorials to honor the many soldiers who gave their lives defending our mighty country, the United states Of America.

Memorial Day was officially proclaimed a national holiday on the 5th of May, 1868 by General John Logan.  The first official observance of Memorial Day was on the 30th of May 1868, when flowers were placed both on the graves of the Confederate soldiers and the Union at Arlington National Cemetery.

We cherish too, the Poppy red
That grows on fields where valor led,
It seems to signal to the skies
That blood of heroes never dies.
Moina Michael

Observance of Memorial Day in America has been diminishing over the years.
Many Americans have forgotten what the meaning of Memorial Day is, they have failed to pass the traditions down to their children, they have forgotten the patriotic feeling of pride and respect and honor for America and her armed service men and women.  The graves of our fallen soldiers at many cemeteries are now completely neglected and forgotten.

There are many resources available to re learn about Memorial Day and to assist you in teaching and training your children about the value and importance of honoring and remembering Memorial Day.  The "National Moment of Remembrance" resolution was passed on Dec 2000 which asks that at 3 p.m. local time, for all Americans "To voluntarily and informally observe in their own way a Moment of remembrance and respect, pausing from whatever they are doing for a moment of silence.

When is Memorial Day Calendar:
2009 May 25, 2010 May 31, 2011 May 30, 2012 May 28, 2013 May 27, 2014 May 26,

Resources:

http://www.remember.gov/MomentofRemembrance/tabid/54/Default.aspx

http://apps.facebook.com/honorthem/

http://www1.va.gov/opa/speceven/memday/

http://www.annieshomepage.com/memorialday.html

http://www.nationalmemorialdayparade.com/

http://memory.loc.gov/ammem/today/may30.html

http://www.loc.gov/vets//stories/

While many people might assume that Mother’s Day is a holiday invented by the fine folks at Hallmark, it’s not so.

The earliest Mother’s Day celebrations can be traced back to the spring celebrations of ancient Greece, honoring Rhea, the Mother of the Gods.

The Romans called their version of the event the Hilaria, and celebrated on the Ides of March by making offerings in the temple of Cybele, the mother of the Gods.

Early Christians celebrated the festival on the fourth Sunday of Lent in honor of the Virgin Mary, the Mother of Christ.

The modern Mother’s Day is celebrated on various days in many parts of the world, most commonly in May, though also in March, as a day to honor mothers and motherhood. In the UK and Ireland it follows the old traditions of “Mothering Sunday”

The second Sunday in May is when we celebrate Mother’s Day in North America.

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Mother’s Day Facts & History

Early Mother’s Days:
* ancient Greeks celebrated a holiday in honor of Rhea, the mother of the gods
* ancient Romans celebrated a holiday in honor of Cybele, a mother goddess, March 22-25 – the celebrations were notorious enough that followers of Cybele were banished from Rome
* in the British Isles and Celtic Europe, the goddess Brigid, and later her successor St. Brigid, were honored with a spring Mother’s Day, connected with the first milk of the ewes
* Mothering Sunday was celebrated in Britain beginning in the 17th century it was honored on the fourth Sunday in Lent
* it began as a day when apprentices and servants could return home for the day to visit their mothers they often brought a gift with them, often a "mothering cake" — a kind of fruitcake or fruit-filled pastry known as simnels.
*furmety, a sweetened boiled cereal dish, was often served at the family dinner during Mothering Sunday celebrations
*by the 19th century, the holiday had almost completely died out The earliest Mothers’ Day or Mothers’ Work Days (plural "mothers") was initiated in 1858 in West Virginia

Anna Reeves Jarvis, a local teacher and church member, wanted to work for improved sanitation in her town during the Civil War, she extended the purpose of Mothers’ Work Days to work for better sanitary conditions for both sides in the conflict after the Civil War, she worked to establish a reconciliation between people who had supported the two sides in the war Julia Ward Howe also tried to establish a Mother’s Day in America Howe became known as the author of the words to the "Battle Hymn of the Republic," but was horrified by the carnage of the Civil War and the Franco-Prussian War in 1870, she tried to issue a manifesto for peace at international peace conferences in London and Paris (it was much like the later Mother’s Day Peace Proclamation)

in 1872, she began promoting the idea of a "Mother’s Day for Peace" to be celebrated on June 2, honoring peace, motherhood and womanhood in 1873, women in 18 cities in America held a Mother’s Day for Pace gathering Boston celebrated the Mother’s Day for Peace for at least 10 years the celebrations died out when Howe was no longer paying most of the cost for them, although some celebrations continued for 30 years

Howe turned her efforts to working for peace and women’s rights in other ways a stamp was issued in honor of Julia Ward Howe in 1988 — no mention of Mother’s Day, though Anna Jarvis, daughter of Anna Reeves Jarvis, who had moved from Grafton, West Virginia, to Philadelphia, in 1890, was the power behind the official establishment of Mother’s Day swore at her mother’s gravesite in 1905 to dedicate her life to her mother’s project, and establish a Mother’s Day to honor mothers, living and dead a persistent rumor is that Anna’s grief was intensified because she and her mother had quarreled and her mother died before they could reconcile

in 1907 she passed out 500 white carnations at her mother’s church, St. Andrew’s Methodist Episcopal Church in Grafton, West Virginia — one for each mother in the congregation

May 10, 1908: the first church — St. Andrew’s in Grafton, West Virginia — responded to her request for a Sunday service honoring mothers

1908: John Wanamaker, a Philadelphia merchant, joined the campaign for Mother’s Day

also in 1908: the first bill was presented in the U.S. Senate proposing establishment of Mother’s Day, by Nebraska Senator Elmer Burkett, at the request of the Young Men’s Christian Association. The proposal was killed by sending it back to committee, 33-14.

1909: Mother’s Day services were held in 46 states plus Canada and Mexico Anna Jarvis gave up her job — sometimes reported as a teaching job, sometimes as a job clerking in an insurance office — to work full-time writing letters to politicians, clergy members, business leaders, women’s clubs and anyone else she thought might have some influence

Anna Jarvis was able to enlist the World’s Sunday School Association in the lobbying campaign, a key success factor in convincing legislators in states and in the U.S. Congress to support the holiday

1912: West Virginia became the first state to adopt an official Mother’s Day

1914: the U.S. Congress passed a Joint Resolution, and President Woodrow Wilson signed it, establishing Mother’s Day, emphasizing women’s role in the family (not as activists in the public arena, as Howe’s Mother’s Day had been) Texas Senators Cotton Tom Heflin and Morris Shepard introduced the joint resolution adopted in 1914. Both were ardent prohibitionists.

Anna Jarvis became increasingly concerned over the commercialization of Mother’s Day: "I wanted it to be a day of sentiment, not profit." She opposed the selling of flowers (see below) and also the use of greeting cards: "a poor excuse for the letter you are too lazy to write."

1923: Anna Jarvis filed suit against New York Governor Al Smith, over a Mother’s Day celebration; when a court threw the suit out, she began a public protest and was arrested for disturbing the peace

1931: Anna Jarvis criticized Eleanor Roosevelt for her work with a Mother’s Day committee that was not Jarvis’ committee Anna Jarvis never had children of her own. She died in 1948, blind and penniless, and was buried next to her mother in a cemetery in the Philadelphia area. International Mother’s Days today

Mother’s Day in Britain — or Mothering Sunday — came to be celebrated again after World War II, when American servicemen brought the custom and commercial enterprises used it as an occasion for sales, etc. the second Sunday in May is Mother’s Day not only in the United States, but also in other countries including Denmark, Finland, Italy, Turkey, Australia and Belgium. By the end of Anna Jarvis’ life, Mother’s Day was celebrated in more than 40 countries. in Spain, Mother’s Day is December 8, on the Feast of the Immaculate Conception, so that not only mothers in one’s family are honored, but also Mary, mother of Jesus. in France, Mother’s Day is on the last Sunday of May. A special cake resembling a bouquet of flowers is presented to mothers at a family dinner.

the Women’s International League for Peace and Freedom, the Women’s Action for Nuclear Disarmament, the League of Women Voters and other organizations still organize protests on Mother’s Day: The Million Mom March, protests at nuclear weapons sites, etc.

Carnations, Anna Jarvis and Mother’s Day:

Anna Jarvis used carnations at the first Mother’s Day celebration, because carnations were her mother’s favorite flower wearing a white carnation is to honor a deceased mother, wearing a pink carnation is to honor a living mother Anna Jarvis and the florist industry ended up disagreeing over the selling of flowers for Mother’s Day as the industry publication, Florists’ Review, put it, "This was a holiday that could be exploited." in one press release criticizing the floral industry, Anna Jarvis wrote "What will you do to route charlatans, bandits, pirates, racketeers, kidnappers and other termites that would undermine with their greed one of the finest, noblest and truest movements and celebrations?"

when, in the 1930s, the U.S. Postal Service announced a Mother’s Day stamp with the image of Whistler’s Mother and a vase of white carnations, Anna Jarvis responded by campaigning against the stamp. She persuaded President Roosevelt to remove the words, Mother’s Day, but not the white carnations Jarvis disrupted a meeting of the American War Mothers in the 1930s, protesting their sale of white carnations for Mother’s Day, and was removed by the police

in the words, again, of the Florists’ Review, "Miss Jarvis was completely squelched." Mother’s Day remains, in the United States, one of the best sales days for florists

Anna Jarvis was confined to a nursing home at the end of her life, penniless. Her nursing home bills were paid, unbeknownst to her, by the Florist’s Exchange

the International Mother’s Day Shrine: this church in Grafton, West Virginia, was the site of the first unofficial Mother’s Day celebration as created by Anna Jarvis, May 10, 1907

The Grand Trees Apartments in Des Moines, IA hopes you have a fun and safe St. Patrick’s Day!

Saint Patrick’s Day (Lá Fhéile Pádraig in Ireland) is celebrated on 17 March of each year.

The first Saint Patrick’s Day Parade in the world was held in Boston on 18 March 1737 and the first one in Ireland did not occur occur until 1931 in Dublin.
New York’s first Saint Patrick’s Day Parade was held on the 17th of March in 1762 by Irish soldiers in the British Army.  These first parades in America were politically motivated were social statements against the unfair treatment the Irish immigrants were experiencing.

General George Washington (future first president) was commanding soldiers of Irish descent in the Continental Army and he allowed his troops to celebrate St. Patrick’s Day on March 17th as an act of solidarity with the Irish in their fight for independence In 1780

In 1991 and each year since, the US Congress has proclaimed March to be Irish-American Heritage Month.

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Presidents’ Day is many things to many people. 

Some say it is to honor George Washington, some say it is for him and Abraham Lincoln and still others say it is to honor all presidents past and present.  However you choose to celebrate President’s Day, it can be an excellent opportunity for you and your children to talk about politics, the beautiful history of the United States and yes, of course, our presidents.

President’s Day was originally called Washington’s Birthday and this holiday is celebrated in the United States on the third Monday in February.

George Washington was born on February 22, 1732. When he was born, America was not a nation yet and it still belonged to England. The people of America did not want to be part of England, in fact, they wanted nothing to do with their mother country so they successfully fought a war to become a separate, independent country.

America won the war and picked a new name for itself: The United States of America and George Washington, who had been a valued and honored General during the war was elected to be its first President.

February 21, 2011 is President’s Day! 
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Feb 14th is Valentines Day, The Grand Trees wishes you and that special someone all the best!

Are you wondering what to do for Valentines Day?  Looking for Valentines day suggestions or ideas?
Here are some romantic suggestions for you and that special person in your life.

Send an e-Card A splendid idea on Valentine’s Day is to open your heart to your sweet one and let know your feelings for him or her.  One easy in free way to do this is by sending an E-card. You may wonder if sending an e-card is considered too impersonal but you will find it is an excellent and simple way to add a little romance to your sweeties day.   There are many sites that allow you to send a free electronic card to someone’s email.  just search in Google or try hallmark.com or DeepestFeelings.com. Imagine your sweet one’s delight on finding a cute, romantic e-greeting with a romantic message in his/her inbox on Valentine’s Day, perhaps you can even use it to hint about the days plans.
Make a Video Another splendid idea is to make a short video declaring your love for your honey. If you have a camera phone or a webcam at your disposal, you can easily make a video and upload it online in sites like YouTube for free. You can use youtube to create private videos as well.  You can then send a link via email to him/her to check out your valentine video!
Hidden Roses This one is specially for men. Buy a dozen roses for your sweetie, hide them in different spots of a place like a park or a mall. Invite her and hide in some nearby spot from where you can watch the proceedings. Arrange a person to hand over a rose to her as soon as she arrives. Attach a note to it informing her where to find the next rose. This should be the case with each rose and the last one should lead her to you waiting with a bouquet of flowers, at the romantic spot of your choosing, perhaps a restaurant or the bedroom or….
Candle-lit dinner Treat your honey to a romantic dinner by candle-light.  You can arrange your own candle-lit dinner at home or perhaps cook a splendid dinner together. Create a romantic atmosphere with candles, sweet snacks and wine. Have soft romantic music playing in the background, and dim the lights so that it’s mostly the candles lighting the room. Then dress up and "attend" the dinner walking up to the table hand in hand with your love.
Prepare a dessert This one is specially for the ladies. Invite your honey to a sumptuous dessert.  Find out about the favorite dessert of your partner and prepare it yourself on Valentine’s Day. Even if it doesn’t turn perfect and your cooking skills don’t prove amazing, he’ll pleasantly surprised and love you for your serious attempt.
Balloons in the car Sneak into your sweet one’s car while he/she is busy at work and fill it with roses and balloons up to the roof. Also leave a note inside telling how much your sweetheart means to you.
Love-letters Believe it or not, even in the age of internet and email, hand writing passionate love letters is still cool.  Women especialy find love letters to be the eternal charm and romance.  So put your pen to paper and pour your feelings out for the love of your life. Say in simple words what your sweetheart means to you, and how your life has changed since his/her arrival. Then hide it in some spot where your sweet one is likely to lay his/her hand soon. Don’t worry if you’re not too good with words, your sweetheart will surely appreciate your gesture
Have a beach-dinner If you can arrange it, treat your love to a candlelit dinner under the stars, preferably to the accompaniment of some music playing off somewhere in the background. You can arrange it all near a lake or pond to make the ambience even more romantic. To top it all, you can rent a small boat and row it after dinner to go out to the middle of a lake and watch the stars.
Walk on the beach Take a ride to a secluded beach at sunset and park your car nearby. Slip your hand into your partner’s and take a stroll along the beach bare foot, watching the sunset together. It will be better to stay awhile after the sunset and enjoy the sight and sound of the waves crashing into the shore, as the water covers your feet. Look up at the starry sky and feel the magic of the universe.

The Grand Trees Apartments in Beautiful Des Moines, Iowa hopes that you and your family have a wonderful and safe Thanksgiving.



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MOVING WITH PETS

Making the move less stressful for your pets

Moving house is a stressful time for both people and their pets. Many pets, especially dogs and cats, will pick up on the tension and as you begin to pack belongings into boxes your pet may become insecure and anxious. There are various things you can do to minimize the stress to your pet during the move and help them settle quickly into their new environment.

• Talk to your veterinarian at least three weeks before the move to determine if your pet will need medication for nervousness or car sickness.
• Gather the supplies your pet will need during the move – food, water, medications, medical records, bedding and toys. It also helps to bring along some of your dirty laundry because the familiar scent of these belongings is comforting to your pet.
• Keep your pet away from the moving-day activity by confining him to a room where he feels safe, otherwise, your pet could become frightened and bolt out the door unnoticed. It’s difficult to pack, move furniture, and keep an eye on your pet at the same time. Maybe you have a friendly place where your pet can stay during the packing and moving, like a neighbor, friend or boarding kennel. As much as possible, try not to disrupt his daily routine.
• Be sure your dog or cat has a tag with your new phone number or the number of a friend so there will be someone to contact if your pet gets lost during the move.
• Move small animals, like birds and hamsters, in their cages, covered with a lightweight fabric. Remove water and any other objects that might loosen and injure them. You must keep the temperature constant for these small friends to survive.
• Unpack and settle in a bit before turning your pet loose in the house. Keep the doors to your extra rooms closed and slowly give your pet access to them as they become accustomed to their new home.
• Orient your dog or cat to the new surroundings. If possible, try to place their favorite resting place (dog bed, chair or cushion) in the same position or area, as it was in your old home. Put their food and water bowls and toys in familiar places as well.
• If you have a dog, walk him around the house, yard and block. If you have a cat, sit quietly and pet her, preferably while sitting in a familiar chair. Provide a place for your cat to hide (she’ll do this anyway). Make sure she’s eating, drinking and using her litter box.
• Be patient, loving and reassuring with your pet, and they’ll adjust quickly to their new home.

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Since 1934 America has federally celebrated Columbus Day with Colorado having celebrated it as a state holiday since 1906 and unofficially being celebrated since 1792!

Every Columbus Day in Des Moines, Iowa there will be memorial observance in front of the Christopher Columbus Monument on the south lawn of the Iowa State Capitol.  The original commemorative in 1938 saw over five thousand people who came to observe the dedication of the monument on Columbus Day, 1938.

Labor Day is a United States Holiday celebrating and honoring the tradition of the hard working American.

It is always observed on the first Monday of September.

The first Labor Day in the United States was celebrated on September 5, 1882 in New York City and all 50 states honor Labor Day as a national holiday.  During this first Labor Day A street parade exhibiting "the strength and esprit corps of the trade and labor organizations" was followed by a festival for the workers and their families.

Many people consider Labor Day to be the symbolic “end of summer”  and Labor Day also marks the beginning of the NFL and college football season.

On this labor day, take a moment to reflect how the industriousness of the American working class spirit has helped to shape where we live.  From construction workers to forest workers, America would not be where it is without the sweat and hard work of these strong men and women.

Enjoy your day of rest.

WHATS HAPPENING IN DES MOINES ON LABOR DAY

THINGS TO DO IN DES MOINES FOR LABOR DAY

LABOR DAY EVENTS IN DES MOINES

June 14th is Flag Day.

What is Flag Day and Why Is It Important?

In 1885. a schoolteacher named Cigrand from Fredonia, Wi arranged for his students to observe June 14 as the United States’ “Flag Birthday”.  June 14th was the 108th anniversary of the official of The Stars and Stripes.

Eventually the State Board of Education of New York adopted Flag Day and in 1849 The Governor of New York directed that on June 14 the Flag be displayed on all public buildings.

The first general public school children’s celebration of Flag Day in Chicago was held in Douglas, Garfield, Humboldt, Lincoln, and Washington Parks, with more than 300,000 children participating.

Flag Day – the anniversary of the Flag Resolution of 1777 – was officially established on May 30th, 1916 by President Woodrow Wilson.  Later on August 3rd, 1949, President Harry Truman signed into Congress and act designating each June 14th to be National Flag Day.

Flag Day is a very special and patriotic day for Americans.  It is a day for us to show our respect and reverence for the Red White and Blue.  It is a day to learn about our flags history, participate in patriotic events and recognize and reaffirm our unity as a proud nation, indivisible with a glorious history and a prosperous future.

How to Properly Display Our Flag:

 There is a right way and a wrong way to display the flag.  The American flag should be held in the highest of regards. It represents our nation and the many people who gave their lives for our country and our flag. Here are the basics on displaying  the American flag:

• The flag is normally flown from sunrise to sunset.
• In the morning, raise the flag briskly. At sunset, lower it slowly. Always, raise and lower it ceremoniously.
• The flag should not be flown at night without a light on it.
• The flag should not be flown in the rain or inclement weather.
• After a tragedy or death, the flag is flown at half staff for 30 days. It’s  called "half staff" on land ,and "half mast" on a ship.
• When flown vertically on a pole, the stars and blue field , or "union", is at the top and at the end of the pole (away from your house).
• The American flag is always flown at the top of the pole. Your state flag and other flags fly below it.
• The union is always on top. When displayed in print, the stars and blue field are always on the left.
• Never let your flag touch the ground, never…period.
• Fold your flag when storing. Don’t just stuff it in a drawer or box.
• When your flag is old and has seen  better days, it is time to retire it. Old flags should be burned or buried. Please do not throw it in the trash.

Flag Day Resources:

www.nationalflagday.com

www.theholidayspot.com/flagday/

http://www.usflag.org/history.html

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Moving is sometimes stressful for you and always stressful for your pets.  In fact, some pets can be traumatized by moves so it is necessary to take steps to ease the anxiety and ensure your pet’s safety before, during and after the move.

This stress is increased ten fold if you are flying with pets.

1. Keep your pet occupied and contained while moving household items. Door are often left open while furniture and boxes are being moved and an anxious pet may seek escape. Pets can also be accidentally injured while objects are being moved so it is best to secure your pet outside or in a room where there will be no traffic.

2. Make sure your pet is wearing proper identification in the event he makes a run for it. Be certain your pet has a collar and tags with your pet’s name and your phone number. List your cell phone number on the tag if your home phone number will change due to the move.

3. Give your pet familiar items to keep him comfortable. Before taking every last item out of the house make sure you leave a few comfort items to help keep your pet calm. Keep items such as a blanket, favorite toys or other familiar items that your pet can have as security during the move.

4. Place your pet in a pet carrier, cage or crate once you are ready to transport him to the new home. Don’t try to hold the pet in your arms. This can be dangerous for both you and your pet. Your pet may jump from your arms and/or you could get scratched. Holding a pet in your arms in a vehicle could cause an accident if a nervous pet gets loose in the vehicle.

5. Let your pet explore the new surroundings but keep him indoors at first. Once you have moved into the new home your pet will be busy exploring the new place. It is best to keep a cat indoors until he adjusts to the new area so that he doesn’t wander off. You can walk your dog on a leash so that he becomes accustomed to his new surroundings.

6. Give your pet time and space. If your pet goes into hiding at the new home don’t worry too much. He’ll come around. Just give him time to adapt to the new environment. He’ll adjust and before you know it your pet will be acting like the king or queen of the new castle.

7. Keep the routine consistent. As you settle into your new home try to keep the routine as regular as possible. Keep feeding, play time, walks, etc. at the same or similar times. Stick to your previous schedule as closely as you can. This will help keep your pet calm and help him to adapt more easily. Any break in routine can cause anxiety in your pet so being consistent in routine can help to keep your pet calm and content.

Before You Move

Contact the State Veterinarian’s Office or State Department of Agriculture requesting the pet laws and regulations of your destination state.

If you have a wolf, monkey, big cat, or any other large exotic animal, you will likely need a special permit to keep it. The state agencies listed at the end of this page can help answer your questions.

After complying with the state regulations, check with the City Clerk’s office in your new community for local pet ordinances. "Leash Laws" are common, licensing may be necessary, and the number of pets per household may be limited. Many communities have zoning laws that prohibit you from keeping pets such as goats, pigs and chickens in residential areas. Also, cats, dogs, aquariums and exotic pets (iguanas, venomous snakes, tarantulas, ferrets, etc.) may not be allowed in apartment or condo complexes. Make sure your lease allows them on the premises before you move in.

Once you are sure your pet will be allowed in your new community and/or complex, request your pet’s health records from your veterinarian. This information will help your new veterinarian provide better care for your pet.

Before your departure, make sure you have a recent photograph of your pet (in case the animal is lost), and the proper pet documents, such as:

1. A Health Certificate less than 10 days old. Most states require one for dogs. Many states require one for cats, birds, and certain exotic animals as well. Check with your veterinarian or one of the state animal-control agencies listed in the back to determine if your pet requires a Health Certificate. The certificate must be issued by a licensed veterinarian, and current inoculation records must accompany it.
2. A Permit. You may need to purchase a permit allowing your exotic pet to enter the destination state. Your veterinarian may assist you in applying for one.
3. Identification. Whether you are traveling by air or car, any pet that can wear a collar should have one on, with an ID tag secured to it. Birds may be identified by leg bands. The ID tag should include the pet’s name, your name, and the destination address. In addition to ID, most states require dogs, cats and some exotic animals to have a rabies tag on their collars. Check with your veterinarian or one of the state animal-control agencies listed in the back.

Choosing A Moving Method

Now you are ready to relocate your pet but must decide how to do it. You can hire a professional pet-moving service to transport your four-legged family member or do it yourself. Movers are not permitted to transport pets, nor are buses or trains (Seeing Eye dogs are the exception for the latter two).

If your pet requires special handling when moving, you may consider using a professional pet service that can take care of everything for you. Your Atlas Agency Sales Representative can recommend a reputable service.

The Pet Carrier

The importance of a sturdy, comfortable carrier for your pet cannot be overemphasized. A carrier should be large enough for the pet to stand up, turn around, and lie down. It must have adequate cross-ventilation and a leak-proof bottom with layers of absorbent lining. It should have a secure closing mechanism on the door, but do not lock the kennel. Federal regulations require that your pet be accessible in the event of an emergency.

Most airlines have pet carriers available for purchase with advance notice (48 hours or more). These kennels meet all US Dept. of Agriculture (USDA) and International Air Transport Association (IATA) requirements for pet transportation. Pet stores also may have acceptable carriers for sale. Birds must be placed in durable pet carriers other than conventional bird cages.

Get your pet accustomed to the carrier several days before a flight or car ride by using it as a bed. Placing a favorite toy or blanket inside will make your pet feel more secure.

By Air

If you plan to fly your pet to its new home, first confirm that the airline allows animals. If it does, give notice when you book your flight that your pet will be traveling with you. Some airlines allow pets inside the cabin (first-come, first-served basis) if the pet is odorless, inoffensive, and kept in a USDA and IATA-approved container small enough to fit under the seat. Properly harnessed Seeing Eye dogs may sit at the owner’s feet.

Pets not accompanied by the owner, or too large to travel inside the cabin, must travel air freight. Most airlines accept dogs, cats, birds and fish in air freight. But if you have a venomous snake or other exotic pet, it may not be allowed on the plane.

Minimize your pet’s stress by avoiding through-checking and plane changes. Moving your pet from one plane to another adds extra work, cost and stress to your pet’s relocation. Remember to have all the proper documents and a recent photo of your pet handy. You may need to bring your pet to freight loading two or more hours before departure. Mark the container with the animal’s name and note if it bites. Write the words "FRAGILE. LIVE ANIMAL" and "THIS SIDE UP" clearly on the outside of the container.

For your pet’s welfare and comfort on any flight, accompanied or not, be sure to:

1. Feed your pet a light meal five to six hours before flight time; but, do not give it water two hours before take-off, except on very hot days. Do not feed fish for two to three days before shipping.
2. Exercise your pet (on a leash) at the airport and administer any required medications. After placing your pet in the carrier, secure the closing mechanism and fasten the leash to the outside of the container.
3. Turtles — the easiest pet to transport — can be mailed overnight. Pack them in well-cushioned Styrofoam boxes with air holes and lined with soft grass or leaves. The box should not be so tight that the turtle cannot extend its legs or head. Write "FRAGILE. LIVE ANIMAL" and "THIS SIDE UP" on the box. Keep the surroundings moist, but not wet, by dampening a cloth and placing it inside the container.
4. Fish — should be packed in plastic containers equipped with battery operated aerators and placed in strong boxes.

Pets must be picked up from the airport within a reasonable time (usually within 24 hours of arrival). If not, they will either be returned to point of origin or placed in a kennel at the owner’s expense.

Be aware that airlines may refuse to transport a pet if:

• it cannot be shipped within a 24-hour period,
• the ground temperature is below 45°F or above 85°F at either origin or destination,
• it is not in a USDA and IATA-approved container or without proper identification and certificates,
• the pet has been sedated, unless the drug name, dosage and how it was administered is noted on the carrier.

By Car

Car travel is the most common means of pet transportation. It provides a feeling of security for your pet (as well as for you), and it is less expensive. Again, advance planning is essential. Traveling with your pet can be a pleasant experience when you follow certain guidelines.

If your pet is not used to car travel, take it on short rides before the trip to help accustom it to the motion of the car. If your pet is prone to motion sickness, consult your veterinarian about medication to reduce or eliminate the symptoms.

Do not feed or water your pet for a few hours before you leave. After you are on the road, feed only once daily. Take a supply of water from home; different water on the road can cause upset stomachs for pets. Make frequent stops to water and exercise your pet, and keep your pet on a leash for its protection — and yours.

While riding in the car, do not let your pet hang out the window. Dirt and insects can fly into its eyes, causing irritation and infection. Keep power-windows locked to prevent your pet — especially cats — from lowering the window and jumping out. If your car is not equipped with air conditioning, leave the windows cracked 1" to 1 1/2". Pets need plenty of air, especially when it is hot, or when the animal is prone to motion sickness.

Small animals, such as gerbils, hamsters and guinea pigs are sensitive to hot and cold temperatures. A good guide is your own comfort zone; if you are hot or cold, chances are your small pet will be, too.

Try not to leave your pet in the car alone. If it is unavoidable, lock the car doors, crack windows for cross-ventilation, and leave water with your pet. Check on your pet frequently if you must leave it alone for very long.

Remove the water and food dishes of birds and other small caged animals to avoid messy spills while the car is moving. Feed and water these pets at stops along the way. Keep your bird’s cage covered to help calm it. If you are transporting fish in plastic bags, do not put them in direct sunlight or cold drafts.

Hotel Stays

If you anticipate overnight stops, contact several lodgings along your route and confirm your pet will be admitted. No pet should be left in the car overnight. Most hotel chains have a toll-free telephone number available via your 1-800-555-1212 information operator. The reservation center may be able to assist you in finding hotels on your route that accept pets. Check your local library for pet-friendly lodging directories, or search the Internet. Snakes should be put into the bathtub and allowed to soak for about an hour once you have checked in.

If you leave your pet alone in a motel room, notify the management and hang the "Do Not Disturb" sign on the door.

When staying overnight on the road, be sure to have with you:

• an ample supply of food, fresh water from home, and a dish for each pet,
• a leash and grooming brush,
• medications,
• extra towels and newspaper,
• a favorite toy or blanket,
• room deodorizer for hotel rooms.

Arriving At Your New Home

Like people, pets need time to become accustomed to a new house and new faces. Using your pet’s favorite food bowl, bedding and toys will aid greatly in getting your pet to feel right at home. Once you and your family are settled in, locate a veterinarian. Ask your previous veterinarian for a recommendation before you move, or you can contact the local Humane Society or the American Animal Hospital Association (AAHA) at 800-252-2242 for the names of veterinarians in your area.

If your pet will have free-roam of your new home, let the animal come out of its cage when it is ready by leaving the door open.

General Reminders

Keep your pet’s routine as regular as possible during the pre-moving stages and the move itself. If you normally feed, exercise, or play with your pet at certain times, continue to do so. During the final crunch of moving, you may find it is better if your pet stays at a friend’s home or kennel. This may help reduce the chances of it getting upset and running away, or hiding in one of the moving boxes, as cats are prone to do.

At any stage of your move, consult your Atlas Agency Sales Representative if you have questions. Your Atlas professionals are always ready to help.

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